Zeta Beta Tau is a men's chapter that does not haze, nor does it pledge.
www.zetabetatau.org
You can read their anti-hazing policy. They are ahead of the curve. There are also other fraternities (yes, for men, I'm not talking women's fraternities like mine here) that have either completely stopped hazing, such as Kyle's chapter of Sigma Nu, or are working to stop it.
Don't play the woman card with me. I was hazed too. It didn't foster unity, it didn't build me into a stronger woman, it made me literally hate the women that hazed the worst in my chapter. I'm not saying dislike, I'm saying hate, and for a reason.
Women haze sometimes just as badly as men, and sometimes in more disgusting ways. I'm too new to have had this done to me, but I know women that have had to wear feminine products around campus. With materials on them so as to make them look like they are not clean. You wanna talk humiliation?
Men and women can both be just as cruel to one another. Another form of "female" hazing is the feeding of the rumor mill. It can seriously adversely affect a new member.