So called Friends
when christmas times rolls around, one buckles down and thinks about who to give, then realize wait a minute most of the people you list is way way way less than the friends you have. Why is that some friends are more like social (hi whats up, maybe someone u would invite to a party or event) but some are really tight, you speak with them practically everyday. I have noticed there is something that I call "Few months friends" you act like twins really tight with them then all of sudden the chemistry fades away and you two dont get along or cant even imagine why u are friends then its back to avoiding the other person. The reason why this came up was I was talking to one of my close friend and she was complaining about the same thing. I am so glad I still have friends for over 10 years but it saddens me to see the others kind of fade away from the pictures. I dont know if any of you have been in this situation.
Off subject but this is why i prefer a small wedding with close friends than a huge one to invite people i am no longer close or was never close with.
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