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Originally posted by kddani
gem_star17, it really sounds like you want us to reassure you that you have a good chance at overcoming your previous bad behavior towards the sororities at your school. I don't know that you're going to get the answer that you're looking for.
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No, i wanted to know how often it was for a sorority to still want a girl after all that. like i said, at first i thought it was a joke that theyd still want me. i'm friendly with the president, now, remember? she reassured me that they were over it. i gave the 50-50 number as a conservative estimate. judging from the posts others put up it seemed like, if you were a bad pnm, you're chances were up, so initially i was suspicious.
In hindsight, i realized that it was dumb to be suspicious, as I'm sure these girls would have better things to do than try to recruit a girl they didn't want. I said that repeatedly..
now, i' am genuinely interested in hearing why a sorority would STILL want a girl that was a bratty pnm. Or better yet, if there were other cases. That is all. Really, if wanted reassurance, i have better sources than you. I'd just go to the president or the girls in that sorority.
i feel so bad. i feel like im being catty towards you and i dont like it. it's not who i am. so lets just drop it and please free to not reply to my future posts. i'd rather hear from GCers who are actually answering my questions (i.e GCers like HC) rather than GCers who are trying to guess if i have some ulterior motive.
All I want is an honest answer. That is what I am looking for and I'll find it if people will give me an honest answer, instead of insinuating i have some sort of agenda.
EDIT: if you only read my second post, i guess it could be taken for me wanting to know my chances. however, if you read my 1st post, i clearly said I had a happy ending. oh well, good job to HC for knowing what i meant!