Your Org. or Your Significant Other?

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Mr. Perfect and I were talking the other day and the subject of BGLO's came about.

He asked me "If you had to choose between me and becoming a member of XYZ Sorority, which would you choose?"

He then took it upon himself and answer for me, stating that he KNEW I would pick the sorority over him.

I told him that the attractive things about the sorority is that it's a lifetime commitment, that I get out of it exactly what I put into it, and the bond I'd share with countless others who can understand the love that I have for the organization.

He has yet to put a ring on my finger symbolizing a lifetime commitment to me, there's always a chance that the relationship could slide from being 50/50 to 70/30, but as of right now the bond that Mr. Perfect and I share is very special.

In the end I told him I couldn't answer the question, and I thought the fact that he'd ask me to choose was unfair. If he loved me, he'd support my decision and respect the love I have for the organization. I think he believes that I'd up and leave if I became a member, and that isn't the case at all.

But just for fun, I thought I'd pose the question to you all.

Have you ever been given an ultimatum like that ("It's either me or your org?") ?

If you had to choose, which would it be? Your man/woman or your BGLO?