I agree with everyone else that you need to be upfront and honest. As soon as the sorority you depledged from sees you are on the list for recruitment, they may tell other chapters or people may already know.
As for the other sorority, maybe talk with the president before you go through recruitment. A lot of times we've had some great girls leave and they never really sit down and discuss why they are doing it or really go into detail whats going on with them. They may also not know you truly wanted to be a part of the organization. We hear that sometimes from people who want to be at another sorority or who just dont care or even people who are doing bad in school. Make sure they know this is no way a excuse.
Don't just drop them because they weren't supportive. Why, because maybe they didnt know exactly what happened or excatly how much you wanted to be a part of their sorority but couldnt.
Its really hard if you are on a small greek campus people hear things and you dont always get a chance to set the rumors straight. Dont be afraid though.
As long as you are honest and very open with the recruitment process you'll be fine. People just get nervous when they hear someone left a chapter and they wonder why or if it is the truth.
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