Okay, I LOVE going to parties and clubs, etc, but I am not very confident in my dancing. Sometimes when I dance I feel like I'm doing pretty well, but most of the time I feel awkward and dorky. I know I need to like loosen up and everything, but I just feel like no matter how hard I try, it won't look right. I really don't know that many moves, either. Until recently I didn't even know to move my lower half and not just my arms LOL. I try to watch other people and emulate their moves, but I've not been very creative with thinking up moves of my own. I want to stand out (in a good way) from all the other girls so I can get attention from people other than old bald guys LOL.
For some reason I feel more confident dancing in large groups of other girls (like my Zeta sisters) or just with a guy. I feel really retarded dancing by myself, and I guess that's maybe because I don't have as much encouragement or ideas from other people that way. I think it's easier to dance at parties where I know people and I'm having fun anyway. At clubs there are places to sit down which sucks in a way, because I end up sitting down half of the time just sulking and wanting some (cute) guy to dance with me. GRR! What can I do? Does anyone know a website that has info or pictures about some good dance moves? I really want to be a good dancer!!!
What's weird is a lot of guys I guess like my big butt LOL so I guess that's an...ahem...asset to dancing. I hate my butt, though, and my thighs, and everything. For some reason, though, a couple weeks ago at a party like eight different pretty cute guys
danced with me, and I think I did pretty well, but when I went to a club last night I felt dorky and no one asked me to dance.
I'm totally spazzing here...PLEASE HELP!!!
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