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Originally posted by PrettySunshine
Ummm Okay... So, what do you need in return from him? I mean, there is nothing wrong with catering to your man but don't you have needs as a woman?? I feel that this is the reason why so many women end up being so attached to guys because they revolve their lives around their men.
Also, I read that couples must submit to one another but for some reason people neglect to point that out but whatever. And there is a difference between submissive and submit.
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Pretty Sunshine,
As I stated earlier, what works for me may not work for you just as what works for you may not work for me. The idea of submission is a WHOLE lot more than just "what you do for me and vice versa" and the fact that you see the word "submission" and just run off on a tangent of steretypes speaks volumes.
Catering to your man has NOTHING to do with wrapping your whole life around a guy or the idea that a woman has no identity of her own. And who said that the man does nothing in return? LOL . Please click on the link I provided to learn more because there you will find the detail.
As I stated earlier, one "type" is neither better nor worse than the other. What matters is what works for you and yours. If you don't like it or believe it..cool, but that CERTAINLY does not mean that your way or idea is the "end all, be all" to making a relationship work.
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