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Originally posted by CutiePie2000
Me either. I believe that once there is a "crack in the foundation" you might as well forget it.
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You're assuming that cracks are permenant things and that they exist in the first place.
There are all kinds of factors that can lead to breakups -- many which can be corrected and worked through (e.g., decisions about where to live, what kind of work to do, do we start our own business or get jobs, etc.) in many cases if
both are willing to comprimise, a middle ground can be reached, and all is well.
I think with adequate understanding and sacrifice that even big things like infidelity can be overcome. Whether or not to go through with that in my opinion should be something of a cost-benefit analysis. In other words, is it worth it?
There has to be effort on both sides, and absent that, you're best to cut your losses.
In short, CP, your statement is overly simplistic, I disagree.
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