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I only read like half the replies to your original post so excuse me if I'm being repetitive.
The way I see it, is that it kinda depends on your chapter...does this happen ever, or is it an isolated case? I'm asking rhetorically, but asking because in both the chapters I have been involved with, Big/Little relationships or designations are important, but pretty fluid. I guess we just never focused on "family" activities and having a big or little was just more of a special designation.
For instance, I have been adopted by two other sisters - once after my big graduated, and then again when I transferred. No biggie, my original big is still an awesome woman and we chat occasionally on Myspace and stuff...I don't think she'd be upset.
My ultimate point being, I wouldn't stress too much, especially since you have graduated.
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