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Hi Ladies...
I'm new to the forum (how is everyone?) and was looking for some help. I've been researching DphiE and know that this is something that I want. However, I'm having a bit of a problem.
I am very social but when there's nothing to talk about, I don't force conversation (especially in a house of 45 very loud girls). I think that this really hurt my chances at rush... the rush chair even said that "the girls felt that they didn't get to know you."
So, I ask you ladies, is there another way for me to shine? I was thinking of "shmoozing" with some of the girls in my class. So...?