times have indeed changed
If we had some girl who tried to shack in our house, we would
call her a "dirty leg" We had a housemother and it is tough for
me to fathom some female gettin' by her. It was not a fearful
situation at all, but we did respect the quiet hours, and some of
the guys who'd plank their girl were not too considerate as they
would want to spend hours with her. How quickly us oldsters forget. But there was still something to be said for discretion,
and remember, mom and dad are paying the bills in most cases.
There were posted hours in sorority houses and it'd have been
difficult to march in the dorm, sneak out, and return the next day,
and the housemother or resident supervisor were charged and expected to 'protect' the girls.
And, for us in the house, if we had the slightest hint that one of our guys was shacking with a girl in our house, we'd kick his ass
out...immediately. It is OUR house, not a brothel. Those manners
have apparently disappeared. And, there were simply some men
who'd study and did not appreciate other goings on. But today there does not seem to be a big stigma for having bastard kids
or kids out of wedlock...but I do not have to deal with that...LOL
This is no lecture...this is how it was...
I don't think I care to project further.
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