For everyone: it's condescending.
I think all that Jess is trying to say is that she's glad she doesn't have to go through all the "getting to know you" crap of dating any more - similar to any of us saying (and I've seen it on here many times) "I'm so glad I don't have to deal with formal rush any more." It has nothing to do with "catching a man and getting your life started" - that isn't AT ALL what she said.
Jeez, people, quit being so oversensitive. And besides, if anyone has call to be oversensitive about something like this it's the women on here who are single and actually remember when Nixon was in office.
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