Men on the Internet
I found myself chatting with a guy I met from blackplanet. He seemed pretty cool. He had decent convo on the net and over the phone. We never met in person though which is a good thing. There were somethings about him that didnt add up so I figured it was cool just to conversate from time to time.
How about today I get a call with a Maryland area code. I didnt answer of course. I decided to call it back. I figured someone had the wrong number. How about it was a women that answered when I called back. This women asked me did I know a man by the name of Jeremey Stevens. I had to think because I really forget that I had spoked with this guy. I then said, "Yes, I know Jeremey!" She says, " Well this is his wife!" I am in complete shock. I then tell her how I met him. I even gave her his "screen name" on blackplanet and yahoo messenger. She tells me that she got her phone bill and it was extremely higher than normal and had numbers from different women on it. All the times that I spoke with this Jeremey he never mentioned that he was married. To be honest I never asked either. I really felt sorry for this woman because I could hear their children playing in the background. Yes, he had children also. The woman seemed very hurt that he would do something like this to her and she said she was trying to track him down. I hope she doesn't kill him!
Anywayssssssss...For those women reading this I hope that you be careful of these men on the net. If you are married and your husband spends a lot of time on the net, be careful as well. Who knows who he is talking to. You never know who is behind that screen in cyberspace. You just never know. So many of us women have went to the extreme to finding friends, love, convo, etc. on the net. It seems like a good idea when all else fails and to be honest its not always bad. I know I have learned something from this. Everything that glitters isn't always gold or whatever the saying is. Its so weird that this Jeremey guy had just called me the night before and then his wife calls. Wow! Just think if I had decided to meet up with him??
Is there anyone else out there that has had an experience like this? I know I am not the only one!!!
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