So, what do you think *we* can do to change the perception/reality of what is and what is not so-called love with such dramatic results? (Serious question)
I know people who felt as though, male and female, using a condom meant you didn't trust/love them really. Is that what love means, though? Obviously not. But then, if you don't have many or any example of love with precaution, then I suppose it would make sense to believe that is the true test.
I don't want to steer the discussion away from the OP, but I think that this self-portrait of *love* needs to be examined in light of our self image. How we view ourselves as mature and loving men and women is crucial.
enigma_AKA
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Originally posted by ladygreek
... because many times (if not most) the girl is led to believe that she is showing true love for her man.
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