Would You Move For Somebody?

[bgsugirlie]

Would you guys move for a guy or girl that you weren't even in a relationship with?

Here's the situation:

My really good friend is almost done with school. She has about 6 more months to go. Anyway, she recently started hanging out with this new guy. He's great...she can't say enough about him.

Problem is...he moved six hours away a few months ago because of a great job opportunity that he couldn't pass up. They only went on two dates before he moved away. They never became exclusive because of the distance thing. They still talk on the phone all the time though and she still talks about how great he is.

Recently she has been talking about moving away for a job after graduation. I know she won't have a problem finding one in her field. In fact, she could probably have her choice of what state she wants to work in.

Last week, she told me that he asked her to move to where he lives. Ok, now I really do believe that he is a great guy. She is not the type of girl to put up with anything less....but moving for a guy?!?!

So....she asks for my opinion about the whole situation and I asked her if she would consider moving to that city if it wasn't for him. She said no.

Ok, so I really feel like if you're not dating a guy and it's not a city that you would LOVE to live in, maybe moving there isn't the best decision....but then again, it's not my decision...it's hers

What would you guys do and what do you tell a friend in this situation?