"I do not see the point of paying dues if association with the sorority will only give me a bad repuation around campus."
Is thist all you can see your sorority or your association with it "giving you"? How shortsighted, and wrong, of you.
First of all, realize that there are people like me out here from your org that if they find out who you are after you've made such horrible comments about them, you won't have to make the decision whether or not to quit - they'll make it for you.
Second - reputations vary from campus to campu. I attended a school 3 hours from my present campus, and they had 3 of the same sororities. It's amazing how differently they were perceived on each campus. My point - There will come a day when someone will say, "You're an XYZ? They were one of the top houses at my school!"
Third - college lasts for 4 years (ideally). Your membership is for life, which means you have sisters everywhere that came from so many different backgrounds, chapters, etc. Concentrate on that.
Work your tail off in your chapter, and go love your sisters. If you want to stick around here, my advice would be to change your username and never allude to your "My sorority is the loser sorority" posts ever again.
Your other option is to do them the favor of quitting.
Sorry my post is less than sugary sweet, but I'm sure there are quality women who went through recruitment at your school would have loved your sorority that didn't get a bid. Suck it up a change your attitude.
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Last edited by MTSUGURL; 10-09-2005 at 11:57 AM.
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