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I'll take pity on you, sweetheart, because god knows nobody else around here will. I have no idea whether you're legit or not and don't particularly care, and I know that a lot of people on GC are going to give you really stupid advice like, "Work to change your chapter's reputation!" which is idiotic given that on many competitive campuses, the "fat ugly sorority" doesn't even contain that many girls who are fat and ugly to start with. And uhh, wouldn't it be hard to get other Greeks to see you in a new light when they apparently don't even talk to you in the first place?
People can be as Pollyanna as they want about it, but when it comes right down to it, I'm sure it's very difficult to be in a situation where most non-Greeks are prejudiced against you because they assume you're a snob/bitch, while most Greeks are prejudiced against you because they assume you're an ugly loser. That's stressful and rotten and can be a constant blow to the self-esteem, and IMO that is no way to spend college.
You might as well stick it out until you're completely 100 percent convinced you don't want to be there. If this is where you ended up as a sophomore, you will not end up in a better house as a junior, so you shouldn't be worrying about quitting before initiation so you can re-rush next year. So stay where you are and, if things don't improve, then quit -- but know that rushing again is pretty pointless.
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