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Originally posted by TheBest!
Wow that is shocking.
I guess sometimes we get in situations without even noticing it.
Last night he called and said I was mean to him and saying in a sad tone of voice: "I always loose."
I told him: "don't try to be the victim now", and I hung up.
AOII_LB93 with that comment you scared the hell out of me.
Now I won't even answer his phone calls.
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That is so good to hear! I know you care about this guy, but you obviously realize that it is not a healthy situation for you. Congratulations on being so smart!
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You know, that's part of why I think people are really stupid. Why don't people just try to AGREE and work things out rather than fighting over every little thing and wasting tons of money on legal fees? I mean, if one party is an ass there's not much you can do, but I'd really hope that adults who at some point loved each other enough to get married could put aside their differences for long enough to negotiate and come to some sort of agreement on property division.
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You would think so.... But adults all to often do not act like grown ups. People going through divorce are almost always in pain and they will lash out like this. They often forget that they once loved this person because really, it does not even seem like the same person that they married.
This is all personal speculation- not from my personal experience, but from watching my parents go through a divorce. I remember even as a young kid wondering how my parents could have ever loved each other. They were very childish and mean and petty during their divorce. It was only when I got older that I heard stories from my mom and learned how much they had really loved each other at one point. They just grew up and became different people. I guess it just happens that way.
Ok, sorry for the rant.
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