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alphagamzetagam,
I totally understand what you mean. My big was president and didn't live in the house - which was good because quite a few of the girls in the house were super critical of her. She was trying to get new types of girls into the chapter and there were a lot of "old fashioned" people who didn't want any part of it - they wanted the same safe type people we'd always rushed, even though those were dwindling. If she'd had to live in the house, she probably would have given up her office. Our house held 14, a made-over family house, so it's proably similar to your situation.
Some people are just not meant to live in a communal setting period, let alone with the duties of office. I don't know, this just seems like one of those things that there's never one good solution.
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