Be Careful

[AOPiLaLa]

Hey everyone--I wasn't sure where to post this but I think this is the right place. This is really more for the ladies that are already members of a GLO, but applies to all. I am right now in the middle of reading rush infractions from all different chapters over years past(I am a new recruitment advisor and they gave us anonoynmous real senario's of rush infractions) and there is one theme that keeps coming up. A good amount of the girls that have reported the rush infractions state "the girl made sure I knew I would be her little sister" or "she said she couldn't wait to see me on bid day". All of the members, when confronted with the infraction, made a point of saying that they had just wanted to girl to know how much they liked her and they were not speaking on behalf of the whole chapter and they didn't mean to hurt her when she didn't get a bid. So, this is my advice to everyone--BE SO CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY! You may not think its dirty rushing or a rush infraction and you may think its a way to make sure a girl knows how much you like her, but it is HORRIBLE for the girl if she doesn't get a bid AND it gets you in trouble. I know in the heat of rush, things can slip out, but please just be careful!
I don't know if anyone else has an opinion on this or an actual experience, but I just thought I would post this. Thanks!