meeting women

[FSUZeta]

those married friends you have will have single friends. let the married friends(and single friends, for that matter) know that you would like to meet someone in the hopes that you would hit it off and start dating. let them know the kind of woman/man you are looking for. have the married couple come along on your first meeting-they will help take the pressure off. when you go to meet these women/men, just approach it like you are meeting an associate, not a potential snogging partner. that takes the pressure off.you can even prearrange with your friends a signal so that they can cruise on off home if you and potential snogging partner hit it off, and another signal if the evening is not going as well as you had hoped. and be nice-even though you might not hit it off with this person, they might know someone you would have a great time with. my husband and i were introduced by a mutual friend.

join an organization like the jaycees,young republicans, young democrats, young anarchists or some other young professional organization. just make sure that this org. has members of the opposite sex. again, even if there seem to be no prospects in the organization, those poeple will know someone who might be the perfect match. it really is all about networking. how about a coed softball team, or beach volleyball or some other coed sport?

and sigmachicard, get over your ex. you will be in a better frame of mind to meet women if you did it minus the baggage. when i was lamenting a lost love, i never managed to meet anyone, but let me get happy with myself and be perfectly fine with being alone and i had more guys interested than i could ever imagine. maybe its that feeing of contentment vs that feeling of desperation that people pick up on.

sigmachicard, and trideltauk, do you know each other? you both sound like nice people and i know that a greekchat romance would be fun to read about!!