Step away from the Dial! If you feel that you need a soap try Dove or Ivory. I have sensitive skin too. For basic skin care, I have used L'Occitane en Provence without a problem. The Shea Butter Extra-Gentle Cleansing Milk and the Shea Butter Moisturizer with SPF 15 were my good friends. I still use all of the Honey Harvest products because they just have such a light fragrance and leave your skin very soft.
After I ran out of the basic stuff, I switched to Mary Kay because my needs changed.
I have been using some of their Time-Wise products inconjuction with their regular basic oil-free moisturizer. I use the Time-Wise 3 in 1 cleanser, the Day Solution With Sunscreen SPF 15* and Night Solution Set and the regular oil-free moisturizer. I also use the eye cream and the gel. Twice a week I use the microdermabrasion kit. I just can't say enough good things about it. I have been using all of these since April and I can see a difference. No, I don't look like a teenager but my fine lines are gone and I have a glow. OK, the glow may be due to the fact that I am pregnant but my skin looks really good.
As for color, I agree that you should find a counter, Avon Lady or Mary Kay lady. Nothing beats hands on training.
L'Occitane en Provence
http://www.qvc.com/asp/frameset.asp?...THEAD-_-BEAUTY
or
http://usa.loccitane.com/index.asp?ck=1
Mary Kay
http://www.marykay.com/productpromot...brasionSet.asp