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Originally posted by 33girl
A male friend of mine had a vasectomy relatively early in life because he said he never wanted to be responsible for anyone but himself. I'm sure some people would find that selfish, but to me it's far more UNSELFISH to admit that you don't want to do something even when society is constantly pushing you into it.
So many people have kids for the wrong reasons, I think we should have nothing but praise for the people who are NOT having them for the RIGHT reasons.
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The guy I'm dating right now also doesn't want children. I just don't think I'm responsible enough when it comes to other people to have kids. I also don't think that I'm very nurturing or maternal and don't want to have to develop that side of myself. It may be selfish but I also don't want to add to overpopulation and if I don't think I can support a child at this point I shouldn't have to.
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