Needing some opinions

[ZTAngel]

I have a question for you. Please don't take this the wrong way. I just want you to think about this for a second.

You've been on GC for a few years and you've posted a number of stories about failed relationships you've had because you believe the girl is a hooker or because she cheated on you. Your friends have had the same experience.

In my years of dating, I've only had one guy cheat on me. I'd say this is the same for many of my friends except for one. She keeps meeting these assholes who end up hurting her. She wonders why her friends have met these people who they trust and have a great relationship with but she always meets jerks.

Could it be that, for some reason, she purposely goes after people that she knows will hurt her?

Could you and your friends, maybe, be going after girls you know are no good for some reason? Maybe it's your mind's way of telling you that you're not ready for a relationship yet. There's nothing wrong with that but maybe you should be doing the dating thing for a while rather than get caught up with girls who have issues and who you know will inevitable hurt you. (except for Rachel but I think that was a fluke)