I would like to agree with the poster who suggested taking her to the spa and bond with her on a level away from the sorority. Do it as a pledge class activity! (Wish I had that thought when I was pledging!!) I do not think you are petty, I think you are a typical human, trying to just make it in the world on your own without hurting others, but with your own interests at heart. I have never been in your situation, but I am not the nicest person all the time, cuz I'm human. I've known some weird people in my day and they are sometimes the smartest. It sounds like she maybe needs some help in gaining some social skills, this is a common reason some people join greek orgs. Have you thought of the possibility that her parents made her join so that she could get out of her shell? Please continue to be civil to her, and remember, the last person I know who loved everyone was Jesus and I don't know anyone who can measure up to that, but we can try!!
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