It was all good, but you hit a deal breaker

[DrPhil]

Deal breakers that I remembered from my discussion with a friend:

1. People deal with stress differently. One of my deal breakers is men who crumble to stress. I cannot be with a man who acts out against the people who love him OR who distances himself or disappears altogether. It is normal to need space. It is not normal to only be able to function if life is perfect.

2. Paying respect to Maya Angelou "never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option". I don't believe in "I will take care of this relationship when I have time" so I have low tolerance for a man who has the arrogance to think he can put people on hold until he feels like being bothered or gets around to it.