My Big Sister
I joined a sorority this year, and I thought that I picked the right big sister for me. The problem is that she never calls me to go out and do stuff. She also has two other littles (a lot of girls joined this year, so the older sisters have tons of littles) and she always calls those other girls to go out, but never calls me. I almost feel like she doesn't like me or that she is mad at me. I know that I can call her too, but I feel that is the older sisters job to make the newer girls feel welcome...plus she calls her other littles and I don't want to impose because she doesn't seem to want to call me. I wanted to approach her on this matter but I know she will deny anything is wrong (she is that type of person) and I am kind of on the shy side with people that I don't know well and I practically don't know my big sister at all. This whole situation just makes me really sad because I feel like a big sis is someone you should be close to and have a special bond with. I feel like I am missing out especially when I see the girls in my pledge class running up to their big to give them a hug.
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