James: Awww...rock on, guy! You are ten steps ahead of many, many men out there.
And something you posted made me re-think what I posted earlier. Yes, lying can be ok. For instance, I DO NOT want to hear that the ex-gf was "wild in bed." It makes me feel inadequate. But lying about what you did last night? Baddd.....
I have also learned that if you want to date someone who is very similar to you, keep on loving the good, but be patient with the bad. Sometimes it's hard to deal with someone who reacts in the same negative way you might, but if you can see it as what it is, you learn a lot about yourself.
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