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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
in addition, you may not want to affiliate with the chapter at your new school. you may want to wait and go thru recruitment at the new school.
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Exactly what I was thinking. Chapters of the same sorority have a different personality on different campuses. You may really click with XYZ sorority on your current campus, but get to your new campus and discover that it just isn't there. Instead, you may find that ABC at your new campus are the ones you feel most at home with. If you go through with your initiation to XYZ before you transfer, you're locked in to XYZ for life.
A close friend was in this situation. She was a pledge at Auburn when a full scholarship at FSU lured her away. As soon as she was sure she was transferring she just felt deceitful somehow in continuing the pledge program when she knew she wouldn't be there as an active sister. She decided to depledge at Auburn, which was the right decision for her. I think this must be a very individual choice, though.
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