Deal Breakers?

[APhiAnna]

There was this one sorority that the pre-recruitment tent talk was really strong for. I remember really wanting to be an XYZ. However, their recruitment chair must have been absolutely nuts that year...she'd match up certain PNMs to actives but with the dumbest "coincidences." I realized that I had met an Anna that day, my friend Erin had met an Erin, my friend Kelly had met a Kelly...I mean, come on. It was ridiculous. I was pretty aware that I was being matched up at the majority of chapters I was at, but at all the other chapters it was based on my activities or hometowns or things like that. But matching up by names? Everybody was joking around for the rest of the day between parties saying things like "Oh. My. God. That's my name TOOO!" because everybody had heard it.

There were other stupid things too...I had written something about Audrey Hepburn movies on my Facebook profile and one of the actives steered our conversation straight towards Audrey Hepburn so we could "randomly discover" this "crazy coincidence" that we shared. I almost felt like being, "Oh, I don't really watch Audrey Hepburn movies" just to confuse the active. Of course I was gracious, but the matchings were just so trivial and obvious that it left a bad taste in everybodies mouths. They had a difficult recruitment that year in that most of their top PNMs wanted to go elsewhere. I know I released them on Day #1 in favor of chapters that were deemed less strong. I am a huge proponent of matching but this story proves you had to do it intelligently.