How do you pull yourself into happy?

[33girl]

I watch Beavis and Butt-Head for a couple hours. Or whatever makes you laugh.

You can get involved w/ the alum panhel (if there is one) as an "at large" member. I did this when I first moved to Pittsburgh. It's really fun and helps you feel connected.

Take a day and just wander around the town - it may seem like you're in BFE (trust me, I know that feeling) but you should be able to find at least one or two places you like. You might even get to like them better than the chain stores and restaurants.

Get on Facebook, Myspace or LJ and join the groups for your city or whatever is the city closest to it and let them know your situation. You might have to travel to get some "culture" but if you know it's out there, you won't feel as trapped. And remember - this isn't 1950 - you can still keep in touch with people online. I'm not suggesting you stay on the computer 24/7 but it's not like you're in complete exile.