I'll pray for mercy on you and yours because that is just awful. I won't say I'm sorry for your loss because I'm sure you'll hear it many more times, but your family will make it through this. I hope that you all may find comfort in each other.
And don't worry about that horribly insensitive woman. God will pop her one good enough for everybody.
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"We have letters. You have dreams." ~Senusret I