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Well I feel for you, I really do.
But it does not sound like you are at all over your best friend. I hope that works out for you but relationships where people have unresolved feelings- even after the feelings are somewhat resolved- can be strained. And if this guy is not what you need in a relationship, how is he what you need in a best friend? Trust, consideration, and caring are some of the major requirements in a relationship and in an intimate friendship. It doesn't sound like you have two out of three.
Sometimes caring ain't enough. But you know your own situation best and in the final analysis, are the only one who can judge whether or not this guy is a positive force in your life.
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It may be said with rough accuracy that there are three stages in the life of a strong people. First, it is a small power, and fights small powers. Then it is a great power, and fights great powers. Then it is a great power, and fights small powers, but pretends that they are great powers, in order to rekindle the ashes of its ancient emotion and vanity.-- G.K. Chesterton
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