would you call me a traitor?

[allthatjazz10]

Hi GC.com!
Okay so heres the deal i was wait listed to my #1 choice for college last year.. so last minute i decide to go to a small rural college about 3 and a half hours away from my house. It was pretty hard to adjust from big city to small town and wasn't feeling to sure that i made the right choice of going to this college blah blah don't want to go into details haha but my main point is that spring (which was of january 2007) i pledge to a sorority to be involved, make friends, and just because i love what sisterhood meant to them. anyways so around March my parents told me to re apply to the college that i was waitlisted at (A&M in college station if anyone was curious)... So i did reapply.. pretty sure since i didn't get in the first time i probably wouldn't this time But i ended up getting accepted yay! but the only thing holding be cause is that they didn;t have my sorority there. so i explained to the exec board telling them that i did not want to be initiated knowing i was not going to stay there and also i already knew that once i was initiated i could never pledge to another sorority (which makes sense) They were all understanding because of course intiation fees are alot! (and not worth it since i was not going to stay)
Okay so i ended up not getting intiated and plan to go to my #1 choice college in the fall
My question is once school starts would there be any hard feelings or trouble if i pledge to another sorority and get initiated? I mean i don't know if i would want to since i'm not at the campus but i'm just saying for the future if i feel the desire to. I saw a post asking this question but i was wondering how they would react.

I would be honest to the sorority i would want to be in and explain to them my situation and hope they understand and accept me/give me a bid.

But i'm worried my old sorority would think i'm betraying them.
The future/maybe sorority would know that i pledge to another because i would tell them but my old one would of course find out through facebook and mutual friends.

QUESTION:would my old sorority think of me as a traitor?

sorry for the life story this has been on my mind since summer started. Anyways any experience/advice/opinions?
-Tiffany