Hey Ladies, I wanted the honest opinion of some older & younger, educated women on this issue.  How do you know when a man is using you?  I have a friend that thinks that she is in a healthy relationship, but sometimes has thoughts about being used by this man.  I tend to think that he is sometimes also because of the things that happen in their relationship.  Generalize your thoughts, as I wouldn't want to disclose the specific issues of the relationship.
