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I was adopted, and it was no big deal. I was lucky and had 3 best friends from my chapter. My big who transferred schools my sophomore year. One of her pledge sister's who ended up adopting me, and my Little. Everyone knew that my original Big was still my Big, she just couldn't be there on a daily basis. When I got my little sister she knew I had 2 bigs, the one who adopted me, and was there all the time, and my original one who she met at initiation and who visited for other larger events.
I guess from my chapter's perspective the original family tree didn't go away we just added to it, as someone else said, with aunts, twins, cousins...
Please try not to get your feelings hurt, I'm sure it is nothing against you, rather your Little just needs a support system that is there on a daily basis - which you can't do anymore. It's not saying anything bad about you, it's just a fact of life.
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She's a rose, she's a pearl, she's an AOP girl
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