Question on Membership and Transferring Schools

[kddani]

So this school has an event planning major? I didn't even know such a thing actually existed. And I didn't know you had to have any particular major to get a job in that field.

You just seem like a person who can't commit to anything. You've bounced from school to school, and made no progress. You've been in undergrad for what- 7 years now? And you're still not done? I think you actually started college before me, or at the very least at the same time... and i've been done and have graduated from law school.

You were SO into pledging Sigma Chi, but had doubts after a month and then quit. What's going to be so different about a new group at a new school?

You've gotta be able to see why people would think you have committment issues. What we're saying here is what people will be saying or asking you at your new school.

Yes, you got bids at this school, but that has no effect on whether or not you'll get bids at this new school. You might not get any bids.

I think people, including myself, get so frustrated with people who bounce around like this. Especially when they want to join one of our orgs. Most of us here have worked hard for our orgs, have dedicated much of our time. People who can't commit sometimes join. We try and try with them, spend so much time and effort on them, and then they quit or transfer or just never do anything.

You're going to face negative reactions until you prove yourself. So far, you haven't done anything to prove yourself. We don't know you, so it's not personal, you're a character on the screen. YOu don't have a ton of posts, so all we're going on is what you've presented to us.

Good luck to you with getting your life together, but really think about if Greek life is right for you. And if you'd be right for greek life. Because if you can't commit, don't get yourself into it to begin with.