If you go to the wedding is ultimately about whether or not you want to remain in a friendly relationship with this girl. People have different reasons for including (or not including) people in their wedding. Maybe she thought you were "mature" enough to handle it, while the other 2 girls would not be. Maybe she thought having you all in the wedding would be more stressful on her because of your differences. Maybe she though you wouldn't care about being a bridesmaid because you are "not that type of girl". My sister was not in my wedding and it was her choice. Other people were more upset about it that either of us.
In any event, if you decide to talk to the bride about it PLEASE PLEASE do it after the wedding, not before. She has a month before her wedding and she does not need the extra stress.
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