Bachelorette Party "dares"

adpiucf · #1 03-16-2005, 08:48 PM

I'm throwing my former roommate a B-Party in Georgetown. She's requested we throw in a few dares. The bride-to-be and our group aren't particularly scandalous, nor do we want to be. Any suggestions on some easy and light-hearted "dares" for the Bachelorette? She loves to dance, doesn't pound drinks, is 29...

Thanks.

agdbirmingham · #2 03-16-2005, 09:03 PM

Not really sure what you're looking for, but ...

you could make her wear a tshirt with lifesavers on them and write on the shirt "suck for a buck" or something like that.

You could have her do a "scavenger hunt" and have to collect weird things wherever you go.

That's all I can think of right now, but I'll keep thinking.

HotDamnImAPhiMu · #3 03-16-2005, 11:36 PM

Crazy -- we're having one too, also in Gtown, first weekend in April.

Our girl, though, I think will just be wearing a veil to identify her as a bachelorette -- she's the type who embarasses easily and deeply! I can't wait until some of my more scaaaaaandalous friend get married. THOSE'll be some quality bachelorette parties.

TriDeltaGal · #4 03-17-2005, 01:20 AM

Haha... I had to respond since I just had my own bachelorette party a couple of weeks ago in Las Vegas.

We didn't do any of those "typical" bachelorette crazy dares, I guess it is the L.A. image-conscious girl in me, I wanted to go out to the clubs looking hot... seriously we saw girls there wearing screenprinted matching "Bachelorette weekend" shirts at the Ghost Bar and Rain at the Palms! Anyway, I digress...

One of my favorite things the girls planned for me that weekend was a "Panty Sort". Before we were going out, we played a game where I had to guess the underwear they had bought me based on their personality. Each of the pairs they bought me supposedly symbolized an element of themselves. For each I got wrong, I had to take a shot (maybe with your friend, you have her owe you a "dare" at the bars). Needless to say, I was pretty wasted by the time we went out (and I thought I knew them all so well) and I got a ton of cute underwear!

Good Luck, adpiucf!

winnieb · #5 03-17-2005, 02:01 AM

Everyone I see out seems to be doing the same things-- the veil covered in condoms-- suck for a buck tshirts--- scavenger hunts--- the list of things they have to do-- like get a guys boxers, get so many phone #s, have a guy sign her chest, etc.
Seems like it is pretty popular to go to the local drag show on Saturday nights too--- and it is even more entertaining when you have an intolerant bride-to-be who forgets she is not in her usual setting-- the queens can be ruthless (great fun is had (at the bride's expense) by all!)

Good luck! and have fun!!

SATX*APhi · #6 03-17-2005, 02:19 AM

Wait -- is this a bachelorette party, birthday party, or combination of the two?

Xylochick216 · #7 03-17-2005, 10:57 AM

I had to wear a veil/hat thing. You could make her take along a penis straw (you can get them at novelty stores apparently) and make her drink out of that. My friends got me a blinking penis necklace. Wearing things like that in public is definitely a dare

WCUgirl · #8 03-17-2005, 11:06 AM

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Originally posted by Xylochick216
You could make her take along a penis straw (you can get them at novelty stores apparently) and make her drink out of that.

For one of my friend's bachelorette parties, we had the penis straws. I was carrying the bag of extra straws, and about 3 am we got the munchies and stopped in for pizza. On our way out, I dropped the bag and the straws went everywhere! Of course I dropped them in front of a table full of boys, and one of them yelled out, quite loudly, "THOSE ARE PENISES!!!" I was so embarrassed.

adpiucf · #9 03-17-2005, 11:10 AM

Thanks for all the great ideas!

AXOeva · #10 03-17-2005, 12:06 PM

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Originally posted by Xylochick216
I had to wear a veil/hat thing. You could make her take along a penis straw (you can get them at novelty stores apparently) and make her drink out of that. My friends got me a blinking penis necklace. Wearing things like that in public is definitely a dare

She looked hot, too! The band at the bar we went to also made her get up on the stage and sing with them.

valkyrie · #11 03-17-2005, 01:56 PM

I would kick the ass of anyone who handed me a penis straw. Seriously, people actually do that?

TxAPhi · #12 03-17-2005, 02:51 PM

my favorite idea to get the whole bachelorette party to loosen up and have fun is to take a long a cute little unlined journal. attach a pen too it maybe with a ribbon using a stapler, hot glue, whatever you've got that will hold up for the night.

if the night starts at dinner, you can get everyone in the party to sign it with best wishes, thoughts, advice for a great marriage, memories... whatever they want to write.

and get the restaurant staff that you interact with to sign with best wishes or advice for a good marriage (these can get pretty funny i.e. DON'T DO IT! PICK ME INSTEAD!). this warms up the girls in your party that have never seen this idea before to use the book as an icebreaker later in the night....

the book can be passed around in your group during the barhopping to record what was hapening at the moment (both b/c you night not remember and b/c you night not see everything that happens if your party is larger) the entries can be pretty funny i.e. it is 11:30 and you are on the bar and i am taking a pic of you!

and the book can be given to the more shy members in your party to go up to a group of people or a bartender to get them to sign the book with advice and "break the ice" or to ask for a dare (you can ask the person you are approaching to sign the book after they complete the dare)

the dares or scavenger hunt lists can even be attached in the journal to refer to when needed. you can get a lot of attention, meet a lot of people, and get free stuff this way.

the book should be a small to medium sized unlined journal so that it doesn't get in the way and so that it also doesn't get lost (you can find them at a book store or an art supply store) and it is a great souvenir for the bachelorette!

i have been to about 5 bachelorette parties where this idea was used, with some bachelorettes who were scandalous and some who were reserved, and it definitely livened up the night regardless. and it is very fun to read it the next day!

have fun!!

33girl · #13 03-17-2005, 03:07 PM

Please don't do the penis straws, veil hats or other things. They just make everyone else in the bar

when you enter.

Bachelorette parties should be fun and classy, not embarrassing to the bachelorette or anyone else.

TriDeltaGal · #14 03-18-2005, 04:37 AM

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Originally posted by 33girl
Please don't do the penis straws, veil hats or other things. They just make everyone else in the bar when you enter.

Bachelorette parties should be fun and classy, not embarrassing to the bachelorette or anyone else.

Amen, 33girl! I told my girls I would kill them if they even tried to make me wear anything obnoxious!