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[Bunnygirl1075]

What would you do if you found out that one of your pledge sisters had told her boyfriend our ritual? What would you do if he threw it in your face one day?
Well, that recently just happened to me. I went over the head of the chapter president to the chapter advisior, who after learning of this had done nothing. this girl is the VP and the advisor loves her to death. So, when nothing had been done and the girl had not even been informed that we knew, I went to our National advisor. Upon hearing this I found out that our chapter advisor had not told her (like she said she would). But the National advisor said she would talk to the VP. It has been a month and still nothing. It is being hushed down and I cant stand it. This girl is to go up for president next year and I cant even bear to have her on exec or even in our room!!The chapter president knows now, but hasnt said a word and I really need your advise girls on what to do. I really do not think I am going over the top on this, so if you have seen a simular situation, please help.

[SigK_Bama]

We had a situation like this with a member, although the boyfriend had the decency to not mention to anyone what she said (he just confirmed to me that she had told him and we let it drop after that). I don't believe anything was done as far as punishment goes, but the girl ended up transferring later that year anyway. She lost a lot of friends because of it. It sucks when the "golden child" of the chapter does something wrong and people turn a blind eye to it.

I PM'd you.

[Kallima]

My brother knows things he shouldn't because his ex was a sister... but hes never told me exactly what it is he knows. Unfortunately nothing was done about it. The good thing is that the ex left the chapter on her own anyway. I'm bothered that he knows things even if he is my brother and hes also greek. He should have known better and told her to stop talking about it. At least he doesn't talk about what he knows.

[Old Snakey K]

Perhaps the National Advisor did talk with this girl, or sent her a (nasty/conduct unbecoming/warning) Letter, that you might not be aware of. There are many links in the chain of comand, sometimes they work slow and under the radar.

Did you tell the National advisor this girl was up for Pres.? Did you tell the National (in a calm way) that you were hurt and felt betrayed? And that you wanted to be informed about some kind of resolution?

Hushing it up, the issue of an outsider knowing ritual, the issue might go away. (If the boyfriend knows his girl got kicked out for something he knows.. he might tell every one).

You want to be the better person! This issue could raise it's ugly head and bite you!

Let the National person take the ball and run with it. You may never know the outcome.

Keep us informed.