Random sex or SO sex?

PureGoldF2K1 · #1 07-20-2004, 12:51 AM

This is mainly directed towards guys, but girls should answer too. Is sex more fun/better with someone random or new or with a serious girlfriend/boyfriend?? I always assume guys who have long term girlfriends are getting bored with having sex with them....but do guys get bored with sex, even if its with just one person? Do they like it BETTER because its with one person?

Let me know!!

IowaStatePhiPsi · #2 07-20-2004, 01:02 AM

I personally like it better in a relationship.
The connection goes well beyond just physical, plus when you know what the other person likes/doesnt like- you can try new things that you wouldnt be sure if a stranger liked.

twhrider13 · #3 07-20-2004, 01:05 AM

Even though I'm a girl, I've found that I can get bored in a monogamous relationship. There are ways to "spice things up" a little, but I've found that if I get bored, it isn't just with the sexual part of the relationship, so there are probably more underlying problems. I've never cheated, though, because I will get out if the relationship (and I don't just mean the sexual aspect of it) is dead.

winneythepooh7 · #4 07-20-2004, 08:14 AM

better in a serious relationship.

_Opi_ · #5 07-20-2004, 09:10 AM

I don't really believe in casual/random sex. Too many diseases and weirdos around. Plus its a serious waste of time.

TheEpitome1920 · #6 07-20-2004, 09:33 AM

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Originally posted by _Opi_
I don't really believe in casual/random sex. Too many diseases and weirdos around.

Thank you for saying that!! In this day and age NO ONE should be having random sex!!

Diamond Delta · #7 07-20-2004, 09:46 AM

I must confess I totally enjoy making out with a guy who is not my bf. Especially if it is some sort of crush or guy in a club. I'd never take it any farther than kissing though.....too many diseases and wierdos out there. I know there's a word for girls like me

ryhmes with "Rick Dees"! But I don't care. Now, sex is better in a relationship (I've never eanted to have it outside of a relationship). You have trust there that is not there with a stranger.

sigtau305 · #8 07-20-2004, 09:58 AM

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Originally posted by winneythepooh7
better in a serious relationship.

Co-Sign

sageofages · #9 07-20-2004, 10:03 AM

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Originally posted by PureGoldF2K1
This is mainly directed towards guys, but girls should answer too. Is sex more fun/better with someone random or new or with a serious girlfriend/boyfriend?? I always assume guys who have long term girlfriends are getting bored with having sex with them....but do guys get bored with sex, even if its with just one person? Do they like it BETTER because its with one person?

Let me know!!

As a former wild girl (it was the 70s and 80s!), I am happy to say...there is NOTHING as good as married sex.

Yes, it goes in cycles of excitement, but the joy and comfort found in the love I have with Mr Sageofages has no equal.

Kimmie1913 · #10 07-20-2004, 10:44 AM

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Originally posted by Diamond Delta
I must confess I totally enjoy making out with a guy who is not my bf. Especially if it is some sort of crush or guy in a club. I'd never take it any farther than kissing though.....too many diseases and wierdos out there. I know there's a word for girls like me ryhmes with "Rick Dees"! But I don't care. Now, sex is better in a relationship (I've never eanted to have it outside of a relationship). You have trust there that is not there with a stranger.

Folks should be careful with the random kissing strangers thing, too. There are STD's that can transmitted that way that are getting VERY common among young people (college kids)

GeekyPenguin · #11 07-20-2004, 11:04 AM

So obviously when you are in a relationship it's better if you're in the lovey-dovey mood...but random can be okay too.

jharb · #12 07-20-2004, 12:28 PM

I'd have to go with cuddling...no sex.

Anything with a SO is better than just random, and I'll leave it at that.

cashmoney · #13 07-20-2004, 02:06 PM

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Originally posted by PureGoldF2K1
This is mainly directed towards guys, but girls should answer too. Is sex more fun/better with someone random or new or with a serious girlfriend/boyfriend?? I always assume guys who have long term girlfriends are getting bored with having sex with them....but do guys get bored with sex, even if its with just one person? Do they like it BETTER because its with one person?

Let me know!!

I love random sex. At one point I may have been the king of promiscuity. These days, its better with a SO. I dont have to worry about her getting pregnant, having some std, stank cooter or a hairy vagina. With a random, you never know what you're going to get.

aephi alum · #14 07-20-2004, 06:43 PM

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Originally posted by jharb
Anything with a SO is better than just random, and I'll leave it at that.

Agreed!

PhiPsiRuss · #15 07-20-2004, 06:59 PM

Random sex is great when you're a teenager, but not when you get really, really old like I am.