What makes a woman?

[1savvydiva]

Okay, so I saw the 'What makes a Man' thread (which didn't get many responses), but I want a concensus from the fellas. What, in your mind, makes the perfect woman? What traits, skills, attributes combine to make us wifey material?


Post away!!!!

[starang21]

oh lawd.....the many, many, many, things

that grace she walks with
that intelligence she talks with
the compassion she shows me
her strength to hold me
the way she talks sh*t to me
the way she keeps me on my toes
the way she doesn't back down to me
the way she looks in those damn jeans


cotdayum that woman, that woman, that woman...

[blackerican]

Originally posted by starang21
oh lawd.....the many, many, many, things

that grace she walks with
that intelligence she talks with
the compassion she shows me
her strength to hold me
the way she talks sh*t to me
the way she keeps me on my toes
the way she doesn't back down to me
the way she looks in those damn jeans


cotdayum that woman, that woman, that woman...

Well said Starang21...my husband loved your post!!!!

[1savvydiva]

Alright, alright, alright!

the fact that she can consistently separate her feelings and emotions about personal situations not pertaining to me from those feelings and emotions influenced by me.

the fact that her legs shoot down out of her skirt right into those heels.

the fact that she didn't have to get her degree to know how to socialize with people from all walks of life.

the fact that she knows that less is more when it comes to make-up, weave and nails.

the fact that she is open, straight forward and honest even if her responses aren't what I want to hear.

the fact that her clothes fit and nurture the contour of her body rather then squeezing and "creating" curves.

the fact that she is reflective and has learned from her past history thereby making her a much more emotionally stable and mentally secure woman.

the fact that her hair color, eye color, nail color stay the same from day to day rather than the color of each carefully coordinated outfit.

the fact that she understands that the only thing she will ever truly have in this world other than her education, is her word.

[TonyB06]

... an emotional intelligence, every bit as alluring as how she looks in what she wears;

...one who knows the power of prayer;

...an internal confidence that makes a cognizant man realize he's in the presence of someone worth knowing;

...one who can do her own thang;

...one who is aware of but unstopped by past hurts inflicted by those who were never worthy of her time in the first place;

...one who recognizes that "cute" comes a dime-a-dozen, and so will accept from me and offer to me the content of our mind/s and heart/s;

...one who can give as well as take;

...one who knows that "to everything there is a season;"

...one whose eyes can say to me, "I'm her Black Superman;"

...one who knows she deserves the goodness that comes her way;


these are a few of the things that make a woman...