Phone Sex . . .

moe.ron · #1 02-23-2004, 05:42 PM

is it consider cheating?

GeekyPenguin · #2 02-23-2004, 06:07 PM

It all depends on how far they go.

Kevin · #3 02-23-2004, 09:01 PM

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Originally posted by Hootie
I believe it is. It's the same thing as cyber sex which is just about as bad as going behind your partner's back and picking up women/men online.
It has been my experience that relationships that "innocently" start from the internet or phone (and involve that sort of activity) do not stop there. If you question whether or not it's right or a form of cheating...then it probably is.
Just my opinion.

I agree.

In my mind, it's about the same as catching your s/o in bed with another person and them telling you that it was "just sex".

I don't think you have to exchange body fluids to be a cheater.

decadence · #4 02-24-2004, 04:45 AM

But surely you need to have PHYSICAL contact or at least PHYSICAL PROMXIMITY??????????????!!! Otherwise it is as ludicrous as that thing on here a while back suggesting people in relationships who had the unmitigated audacity to have friends were "emotionally cheating"!

HBADPi · #5 07-01-2004, 04:14 PM

To add on to decadence's comment, what exactly do people get out of phone sex? There is no contact or physicallity about it. I suppose to each his own but I mean if you're going to jackoff do you really need a voice to attach your fantasy to? I suppose its along the same way porn helps you guys but personally I would think porn does more for a guy in that situation than a girl on the other end panting and moaning.

winneythepooh7 · #6 07-01-2004, 04:23 PM

I think that if my s.o. was having phone sex with another chick I'd be pretty pissed. I am sure they would be too. I wouldn't want to put myself in a situation and vice versa with my partner where I was doing anything that would appear to be deceiving to them or disrespectful to them. This seems like one of those instances.

Kevin · #7 07-01-2004, 04:40 PM

Winney, what made you decide to start this thread?

I'll bet it's a very interesting story.

AKA_Monet · #8 07-01-2004, 05:46 PM

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Originally posted by HBADPi
To add on to decadence's comment, what exactly do people get out of phone sex? There is no contact or physicallity about it. I suppose to each his own but I mean if you're going to jackoff do you really need a voice to attach your fantasy to? I suppose its along the same way porn helps you guys but personally I would think porn does more for a guy in that situation than a girl on the other end panting and moaning.

So you mean to say you don't make too much noise when its done? It doesn't make you moan or squeal???

I'm sorry, you walked into that one

valkyrie · #9 07-01-2004, 07:16 PM

Okay, for real, who has phone sex???!

#10 07-01-2004, 07:21 PM

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Originally posted by valkyrie
Okay, for real, who has phone sex???!

Oh yeah, oh baby, oh baby, oh yeah.

I couldn't be a phone sex operator even if I tried. Jules, hurry up and give me lessons.

Mwahahahahaha.

winneythepooh7 · #11 07-01-2004, 08:54 PM

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Originally posted by ktsnake
Winney, what made you decide to start this thread?

I'll bet it's a very interesting story.

I have lots of interesting stories. I didn't start this one though.............

PM_Mama00 · #12 07-01-2004, 09:41 PM

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Originally posted by valkyrie
Okay, for real, who has phone sex???!

Not I, but it's pretty damn funny to hear some guys get into it, thinking you're doing it too..... <cough cough> hahahahahahahahaha

swissmiss04 · #13 07-01-2004, 10:04 PM

Phone sex is cheating. Or cyber sex. They tend to get lumped together anyways. Why is it cheating? You are allowing another person to fulfill needs that should be fulfilled by your significant other. You can whine all day long about "He/She isn't giving me what I want" but ultimately it comes down to this: a) You learn to live with it or b) You get out of the relationship and find someone/something that fulfills your needs. This explains "emotional cheating". If your s.o. is making you feel bad (or just not doing much to make you feel good) and you turn to someone else to get that, it's cheating regardless if you have any sexual attraction to them. And then in that case it's best to get out of the relationship.

sororitygirl2 · #14 07-01-2004, 10:39 PM

I would consider it cheating. And I think it's boring and ridiculous. Such a joke to think that people actually pay for it!

Kevin · #15 07-01-2004, 11:56 PM

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Originally posted by winneythepooh7
I have lots of interesting stories. I didn't start this one though.............

Doh.

I must have been thinking of one of your other threads.

Sorry