I broke up with my boyfriend and...

AchtungBaby80 · #1 02-22-2004, 12:37 AM

...I feel really terrible about it, even though I know it probably would've happened eventually anyway. He's a bossy person by nature, and I just couldn't take it. It's bad...from the outside, he seems like such a great guy, but...well, I guess Communism looked good on paper, too.

I'm just sad...I hate breakups.

KillarneyRose · #2 02-22-2004, 02:58 AM

I'm sorry, Dana

It's never easy to decide to end a relationship, but I'm sure you did the right thing for you.

Now would be a great time for you to meet up with every Delta Zeta's favorite men: Ben and Jerry! I'm sure they'd help cheer you up

chideltjen · #3 02-22-2004, 03:24 AM

Sorry to hear it.

I was in a relationship with a "bossy" person too. He had his idea of the perfect gf and tried to mold me into it. When I didn't conform, it got messy. He had other issues too.

But bottom line, it's probably better that it's over.
As much as B and J sound tempting, it will all go straight to your thighs.

Try buying a new outfit instead.

James · #4 02-22-2004, 03:44 AM

Bossy lol?

Its always the other person's fault isn't it

?

G8Ralphaxi · #5 02-22-2004, 05:24 AM

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
...well, I guess Communism looked good on paper, too.

Great quote! I'm totally going to steal that one to use in reference to a certain unnamed [not so gentle!] gentleman!

As my best friend always says, as long as you've still got your sense of humor, everything will work out ok.

Best wishes to you. And screw Ben and Jerry's - it's Girl Scout Cookie time! Get yourself a box of Thin Mints, pop 'em in the freezer for a couple hours, and enjoy the SATC finale tomorrow. A little bit of an estrogen superdose, but good therapy.

rainbowbrightCS · #6 02-22-2004, 10:03 AM

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Originally posted by James
Bossy lol?

Its always the other person's fault isn't it ?

Yes it is the other person fault, she broke up with him. Why would she break up with hom if it was her fault????

alikat2 · #7 02-22-2004, 11:08 AM

I think it's time for some retail therapy.

aephi alum · #8 02-22-2004, 11:45 AM

Sorry to hear it.

Ben and Jerry are your friends.

Take care.

AchtungBaby80 · #9 02-23-2004, 07:09 PM

Thanks, guys.

Y'all made me feel a lot better, even though I still feel bad. He wants to get back together and suggested that we take until the end of the week apart, with no contact, to "think things over"...but I know it'd still be the same old fights, and we fought a lot. I hated seeing him hurt, but I'm also relieved...now I can relax instead of being on the road most of the time.

AXJules · #10 02-23-2004, 07:26 PM

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Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
Thanks, guys. Y'all made me feel a lot better, even though I still feel bad. He wants to get back together and suggested that we take until the end of the week apart, with no contact, to "think things over"...but I know it'd still be the same old fights, and we fought a lot. I hated seeing him hurt, but I'm also relieved...now I can relax instead of being on the road most of the time.

Just wanted you to know I'll be thinking about you! If it makes you feel any better, your breakup was a lot faster than mine has been (um, 4+ months, anyone??) At least you did it properly....

damasa · #11 02-23-2004, 07:38 PM

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Originally posted by AXJules
Just wanted you to know I'll be thinking about you! If it makes you feel any better, your breakup was a lot faster than mine has been (um, 4+ months, anyone??) At least you did it properly....

You're still hitting it, don't lie.

Go shorty, it's not your birthday but you're gonna hump him like it's your birthday.

=10 points.

Rudey · #12 02-23-2004, 07:40 PM

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Originally posted by damasa
You're still hitting it, don't lie.

Go shorty, it's not your birthday but you're gonna hump him like it's your birthday.

=10 points.

I object because only guys are allowed to hit, bang, or screw.

-Rudey
--Motion granted

AXJules · #13 02-23-2004, 07:55 PM

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Originally posted by damasa
You're still hitting it, don't lie.

Go shorty, it's not your birthday but you're gonna hump him like it's your birthday.

=10 points.

Hey! Make up more shit about me! I keep the 10 points!
/end hijack!

damasa · #14 02-23-2004, 07:57 PM

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Originally posted by AXJules
Hey! Make up more shit about me! I keep the 10 points!
/end hijack!

That's hot.

We should hump (again).

AXJules · #15 02-23-2004, 07:58 PM

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Originally posted by damasa
That's hot.

We should hump (again).

Sicko.
Sorry AchtungBaby!