Boys = BLAHHH

bgsugirlie · #1 08-09-2003, 03:07 PM

Ok, so I had a perfect little life. Great friends. A loving family. Amazing sorority sisters. I actually like school. I have a total blast at my new job. And then BAM, guy drama!

I dated Jason a couple of years ago. We were friends before anything happened, then we started dating, things were going good, we both kind of drifted apart, things started going not so good, and then things (romantic things) kind of ended without any explanation as to why we never had a happily ever after, but we went back to being friends. I started dating other guys and he started dating his ex-girlfriend. But now, he broke up with his ex (I'm not exactly sure what happened there) and he is hinting around that he wants to be "more than friends" with me again. I'm not exactly sure what I want...he is an amazing guy and a great friend, but I vowed a long time ago to never be one of those girls who dates a guy, breaks up with him, gets back together, breaks up...I just HATE that and I don't want to be that. So, this brings me into some major confusion...what do I do about Jason? I care about him a lot, but I want to get it across to him that he can't just throw away girls when he is done with them and that there are no guarantees for second chances and no guarantees that I'm going to be around for that. The only thing I am sure of right now is that guys have an amazing ability to create tidal waves in the ocean of life

PandaOnProzac · #2 08-09-2003, 03:22 PM

Not all guys are filled with drama.

chicagoagd · #3 08-09-2003, 03:40 PM

I would clarify what he means by being "more than friends" - to be in relationship or does he want the friend "with benefits" status.

Tom Earp · #4 08-09-2003, 04:56 PM

Dang, dont You know the Road of Life is full of pot holes and rocks?

How many people have you dated? 1, 2, 3, 0R More?

What is your age. Is everything a Drama, Trauma, or just Normal??!

Been there done it and did it. Life Sucks! But better than the alternative!

One report that I read years back stated, that there were 158 thousand possibles that you could be with and marry!

Damn, I wish I had known that when I was 6 years old!!!!

smiley21 · #5 08-09-2003, 05:13 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PandaOnProzac
Not all guys are filled with drama.

yeah some are filled with nothing at all

Hootie · #6 08-09-2003, 06:57 PM

I wonder in your situation what it is that made him change his mind about the two of you? Does he miss you and realize what he lost? Have the two of you really spent that much time apart to gage what you both want out of a relationship? Is he on the rebound?

These are things I would be asking myself.: Are you happy without him? Do you feel the strong desire to be with him? Can you seperate your desire to be with him from your desire to be in a relationship in general again?

steelepike · #7 08-09-2003, 08:27 PM

I can assure you I am no drama but then again isn't drama fun. Well from the outside looking in, it has always amused me.