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Originally posted by Betarulz!
However conservatives seem to want do nothing to prevent the need for abortions just as much as they want to do away with them.
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i agree that may
seem the case for some conservatives, but for
this particular conservative, not so much. i would love for the so-called "need" for abortions to not exist.....unwanted pregnancies are unbelievably sad and unfortunate, and all too real. but i have the mind-frame (probably unrealistic, but ya know) that not every unwanted pregnancy is
really unwanted since there is someone out there trying to become pregnant and can't and therefore would definitely
want that child.
not to get off into something else, though. i'm all for condoms in bathrooms, better sex ed classes, but honestly......do those really prevent kids from having unprotected sex/sex at all?? i don't know the statistics for those gettin it on with and without those classes in school, so if someone can show me some, i'd appreciate it. (not even being sarcastic....for real) i think more so than just gen sex ed classes, kids need to be taught that certain actions can produce certain results....and they need to be
morally responsible in both. in
my opinion, having an abortion when the mother's life is not in danger.....it's a selfish act. they don't want to go through the embarrassment of the pregnancy, don't want to have a kid right then, they don't think they can afford it all.....so, the easy fix-it-quick solution is to rid themself of the problem. abortion.
if we could fix human nature to take care of others b/4 ourselves, there would be no abortion problem. again, i'm being completely un-realistic. adoption, in
my opinion, is the answer to all "unwanted" pregnancies......the whole world is not going to abstain (at least i'm really not planning on it), so the best we can do is birth control methods. sometimes, those fail. sometimes, babies are conceived.
so, as a pro-lifer, i have to say, "so sad"......it sucks that this woman regrets her decision to be involved in this case, and like beta...i have to say i hope she does learn from all this....but i think it's shown that she has by wanting roe vs wade over-turned.
also just like to say i know this is a touchy subject.....2 of my best best friends in this world have had abortions.....please (!) don't think i am judging anyone b/c i'm not....my selfish comment up there is not meant to describe anything but the
act of abortion....i know ppl feel helpless and like they don't have anything else to do....believe me when i say i
know and understand this from having to see the before and after-effects of their abortions.....all i am stating above is how i
wish reality was--adoption friendly. i hope this can stay a civil and not-too-flamey thread.....