1. Because they are assertive, yet humble
2. Because they are kind, yet tactful
3. Because they are funny, yet tasteful (at least some of the time)
4. Because they are devoted, yet not smothering
5. Because they are organized, yet happy-go-lucky
6. Because they are optimistic, yet grounded
7. Because they are pragmatic, yet reconstructionistic
8. Because they are independent, yet family-oriented
9. Because they are personable, yet not instrusive (at least some of the time)
10. Because they are tough-minded, yet always appreciative of a warm teddy bear hug and a rainbow kiss