Kisses

[bgsugirlie]

Ok...so I am in major need of help!

I've been dating this incredible guy for almost 5 months. Everything is going good except he won't use his tongue when we kiss!!!!!! It's kind of a necessity for me. I mean, after all, I think it is something you do with a person you care about. Kisses without tongue are sweet but not if those are the only kind.


So here's the background info:
I've been friends with him for 7 years before we even started dating, and we talked about everything. I remember him mentioning that he can't tongue kiss a girl even if he cares a lot about her because the whole thing just grosses him out. I'm not understanding that! But anyways, I told my friends the story and they told me to just slip my tongue in but I don't want to do that if it is going to completely gross him out.

AHHHHHHH! What to do???

[KillarneyRose]

I don't understand the logistics of his kissing style. You mean he kisses with his mouth open but keeps his tongue to himself?

An unwelcome image of a bigmouthed bass just popped into my mind!

[librasoul22]

A man that can't kiss? Toughie!

This guy is grossed out by using his tongue?? Ever asked him why? Because that is really weird. I mean, is he down for oral sex?

If he doesn't use his mouth for ANYTHING it is hard to imagine being physically attracted to him. And love without physical attraction is friendship.

I say TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.

[bgsugirlie]

KillarneyRose...lol a big-mouthed bass is an interesting way to put it
But he kisses with his mouth open and kind of sucks or nibbles on my bottom lip...that's about the only way I can explain it.


librasoul22...ok this is the part that I don't understand because he enjoys doing other oral things (if you know what I mean) but never uses his tongue when he kisses!!!! And they say that guys aren't confusing....???

[Rudey]

Do you have sex with him at least three times a day with frequent oral sex breaks in between? I know a lot of guys that won't even bother running their hands through a girl's hair if she doesn't provide that minimum.

-Rudey
--You better give a whole lot more than the minimum for kissing with tongue. Tongue ewww.

[The1calledTKE]

Maybe if you brush your teeth and use mouth wash in front of him we might be less grossed out. Who knows, haven't ever hear of anyone grossed out by toungue kissing before.

[Optimist Prime]

Maybe he's afraid of gaging you. Check out the other thread. Slip the tounge yourself.