Relationship Questions of the Day...

[the411]

It’s so interesting to me how different couples think when it comes to infidelity and platonic friendships. Recognizing this from my own conversations and interactions with my male and female friends, I decided to pose a couple of questions, simply to see just how different (or even alike) we really are. But, to do this, I need your participation. On my web page, I’ve created a few polls with two simple questions. If you’d be so kind as to answer these questions, I’d be very appreciative and I think we’ll all be amazed at the results. The questions can be found here:
http://www.lajune.net/mycustompage0023.htm

Ladies, your questions are in the red and white blocks!
Fellas, yours are in purple and gold!

PLEASE BE HONEST! And, feel free to add comments if you want to!

THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!

PS: 18 and over only, a-ight? And, by all means, share this with others. The more responses, the better!

[the411]

Here are the results of my poll as of August 5:

Your mate is bonding with a member of the opposite sex. Which type of bond most threatens you?

The Ladies (31) say:

1. Spiritual Bond = 6%
2. Emotional Bond = 64%
3. Sexual Bond = 29%

The Fellas (11) say:

1. Spiritual Bond = 9%
2. Emotional Bond = 54%
3. Sexual Bond = 36%

You're very emotionally close to a member of the opposite sex whom your mate knows nothing about. Is it cheating?

The Ladies (22) say:

1. Yes, if it's kept a secret = 31%
2. Yes, if I have feelings for the person = 13%
3. Yes, if the person has feelings for me = 4%
4. Not if there are no feelings involved = 13%
5. No--there's no sex/intimacy = 36%

The Fellas (8) say:

1. Yes, if it's kept a secret = 25%
2. Yes, if I have feelings for the person = 12%
3. Yes, if the person has feelings for me = 0%
4. Not if there are no feelings involved = 0%
5. No--there's no sex/intimacy = 62%