Got asked who i wanted as my "Big sister" and now i regret answering

[ButterFly003]

Ok well i only went to one event and there was only 1 girl called "lila" who i talked to most, well today was interview day with the girls and one asked who i wanted as a big sister and i chose "lila" but the reason i said that was because i talked to her the most on my first day. And if anything i/m okay with any girl being my big sister. But now i feel as if since i said "lila" i have to be with lila. Also the girls were separated in three groups so it was only one group who asked me that.
Also we are a pretty new sorority and it's not that big.
I just wish i said "anyone" or " anyone but i did talk to lila the most"

A bit bummed about this, it's just i don't know all the girls yet
Should i talk to the social chair girl about this when i see her next?

[AOII Angel]

This must not be an NPC sorority.

[FSUZeta]

It sounds like you are having second thoughts. If so, what are they?

[knight_shadow]

Originally Posted by ButterFly003

Ok well i only went to one event and there was only 1 girl called "lila" who i talked to most, well today was interview day with the girls and one asked who i wanted as a big sister and i chose "lila" but the reason i said that was because i talked to her the most on my first day. And if anything i/m okay with any girl being my big sister. But now i feel as if since i said "lila" i have to be with lila. Also the girls were separated in three groups so it was only one group who asked me that.
Also we are a pretty new sorority and it's not that big.
I just wish i said "anyone" or " anyone but i did talk to lila the most"

A bit bummed about this, it's just i don't know all the girls yet
Should i talk to the social chair girl about this when i see her next?

[sigma_tri]

this is at a recruitment event correct?
To have actives ask you that question is absolutely unacceptable in any way, shape or form. You should never be asked who you want as a big outside of private big-little rankings.
I can empathize with how uncomfortable you feel in this situation. If you are asked again, answer that you are unbiased and having actives ask you such candid and frankly illegal rush questions makes you feel uncomfortable and change the subject as quickly as possible